GUYS

Boys or I should say men are not bad in general. But i do not deny that there are a big number of assholes out there. What i Am trying to say is that there are still good and loving guys out there. I know you were hurt in your past relationship but it shouldn't affect your thinking in guys and you should never preassume ALL guys are bad or jerks. We guys sometimes gets mixed signals from girls too. We guys are more straight forward, we preceive things as how we see it, how we exprienced it and not by feelings nor emotions. Our mind is simply more SIMPLE. We do not think that much tgus we tend to overreact when shit happens. No doubt on that but the problem is we get mixed signals sometimes when girls do things that we think it suppse to be. Eg? Easy, a date means ok; a hug means more than friends; but someti mes girls do not stop at the point they suppose to stop so that they wont give us mixed signals and misled us. Lets say you wish to be friends only, yiu need to know the limit of being a friend and make it clear. Lets say in a scenario, the guy ask you out and he means only you alone this clearly shows that he is intested to know you better and also likes you. If you really just want to be friends with him its either a rejection or just make it clear with him. If girls do not make things clear then we guys will assume that we have chances. I know girls will say its mean to say no or what so ever. But it is MEANER to go out with us as you pity us or after giving "hopes" and then crush it. We guys still have our sensitive side. The minority group of pervs, jerks, heartbreakers, liers, assholes makes things hard for the guys who is sincere and we are oftenly misunderstood for it. Alot of sincere guys are try to be in love but couldnt get hold on the chances.