long distance relationship

being in a relationship even a when you are near to each other is very demanding mentally, physically and also all the feelings involved. when you are in a long distance relationship, this commitment and also responsibility is far greater than anything. being far apart from someone you love sucks but things aren't always what we want it to be rite. A basic relationship needs connection and also communication. without that things wont work out. being far apart sucks but when two individual dont talk and connect properly things definately wont work out. Alot people jump in and out from relationships just for the sake to have a lover even care that there are things u reall need to do when you are in one relationship. quite a number of my friends are have ldr. some are in different country some different states some different place. most of them have problems which is they quarrel alot and get emotional. i mean why do you still want to have this kind of relationship. no point. it will definately affect your mood, concentration and your interpersonal relationship with friends. if we cant connect and communicate with someone we love properly and maturedly it is time we let go of things. a relationship suppose to be happy. yes there is hardships in love but one thing for sure. Finding love is not wrong. Sacrifing happiness when you are finding for love or when you are in love is definately wrong. what i am trying to say is that love is something really have to be matured. when things goes wrong talk things out rather than voicing it out loud. when you feel insecure tell your partner about that. i always believe that talking about how you feel and what you feel to someone you love honestly will definately bring the relationship to another stage. relationship is something very abstract. but i can say alot of guys who are in relationships now are insecured and vice versa. this leads to immatured demands. which leads to disasters. please people, if you want to be in a relationship, please be matured about this. it is not about all because u want a girl/guy in your life or other benifits or gain in yr life but someone whom you can connect with.